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Celebrating reading: Naturally

I love reading. Always have. There’s something about finding a good book and not being able to put it down that lifts myahoobadgey life into relaxation.

Its part of the reason I became a teacher. When asked why I wanted to teach, I would respond: I want to teach kids how to take the words they know to make beautiful pictures and stories. I want to teach them to use what they’ve learned to enter new worlds and experiences.

When I met the Huz, he didn’t read. Much. Unless it was related to financial matters or studying for the CPA exam. I knew I couldn’t change him, but I knew I could encourage him to enjoy life through books like I did. It took a while: studying for the CPA exam takes up a lot of reading time. But he saw me reading each night before I went to sleep, he experienced me getting lost in a book at the beach and pool,  and, before a vacation several years ago, finally asked me to suggest some books for him. Since then, every time he has a book to read, I’ve noticed he’s more relaxed. Books do that.

Of course I wanted to help my children embrace reading as much as I do and, luckily, its been easy. The kids went through the usual steps: gnawing and drooling on books, reaching out and feeling the pictures, pushing pages, turning pages (Little is at this point now), making up stories and words to go with pictures, and listening. Listening. Listening. Listening.

There has never been a time the kids have pushed away books–primarily because we’ve been role models. They know we read. They know we love to. Every room in our house has a table with a book on it. And we welcome times to sit quietly and read. We read in bed, on couches, while breastfeeding (okay, only I do that), in the car, on the toilet. We even read during potty training to make the process easier and more calm.

Actually, the only time we’ve noticed hesitation toward books and reading is when its pushed. I’m a big believer in letting the kids read when they’re ready. There’s absolutely no reason for a child to read first in his class. If he does, great. But if he doesn’t he’s not going to be any further behind in the end. Everyone will learn to read on his own time.

I see parents pushing reading with flashcards and software programs. While its fine to present them to kids and let the kids know they’re available, its not okay to make them learn until they want to.

Reading is supposed to be fun. As the NBA says, its “FUNdamental”. Reading is fun.  But only if you suggest it as so. When parents make reading a job, its reflected as such in their children’s attitudes.

But I digress. Around here we each have our own books. We read series. We read novels. We read board books. We read as a group and we read on our own. We are always welcome to grab a book, and if we’re caught reading we’re offered quiet time. (In other words, when Big or Middle grabs a book and settles in to read, everyone is reminded that he is focusing on the book and to please leave him alone.) Reading happens everywhere. And in my home, that’s how it should be.

 

This post was written in response to the Yahoo! Mother Board’s topic for March 2010: Celebrating Reading. Check out all my Y! Motherboard’s friends responses to this topic.

For more information on ways you can introduce and celebrate reading in your home, check out

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The most important message: You have to believe in You

Another snow day here in the Philadelphia region, but this time I was prepared. Following school Wednesday, we raced over to the library to collect a few books, movies and a wii game (that’s right! Our library has wii games for $3 for a week.)

The kids usually grab a trendy movie that I really don’t want to see, something like Super Mario Brothers or Bakugan. But every now and then I convince them to borrow a movie that I’d like to see. This time it was Angels in the Outfield.

If you don’t recall the movie, its about a failing California Angels professional baseball team that’s getting a little help from some foster kids and some real angels. With big-name stars like Danny Glover, Tony Danza, Christopher Lloyd, Matthew McConaughey (!), and Dermot Mulroney (I know, I had no recollection of all these stars in the film, either),  its a very fun family* movie.

So, my point. The point of the movie is really that you need to believe in yourself. The kids didn’t quite get that. Which lead to a great discussion of believing in yourself: that others put value in you, but for you to get something done, you have to believe that you can.

We went on to discuss how this affects us in real life. Even Middle, age four, was able to tell us times when he needs to remember to believe in him. Which is huge for him.

The discussion was focused on the kids and times when it helps to believe in themselves, it made me pause to think about adult lives, and how important it is to believe in yourself.

Parents, this is huge. For a lot of us, we loose something of ourselves when we become parents. We’re nervous, we start self doubting because we know that nothing is more important than the health and safety of our children. Our confidence takes a beating with every owie and each ear infection. Each time our child fails, we wonder if its something we’ve done. (And, don’t forget, failure is a great teacher). Our confidence is spoiled. And, often, we loose the belief that we can do it.

For those of us that stay home, this affects us later, as well. We’ve doubted ourselves so often that we begin to loose our confidence professionally, even socially. So that when its time to go back to work we’re struggling to remember how to do an interview or how to present ourselves. And how, we fear, will we convince the employer that we can do this job, when raising a child left us with so many questions? So much uncertainty?

The lesson in Angels in the Outfield is universal. You have to believe in you: first and foremost. You have to have that confidence in yourself to model to your children. You have to have it to get anywhere in life. You have to have it to succeed.

Sometimes it takes an old movie to remember that, while there may be angels among us, even they can’t make things happen without you being there first.

 

*Note that there are a few A-word mentions, but they’re stopped about half-way through the movie when Roger, the boy, explains that Angels don’t like curse words and perhaps they’d help out more if the coach cleaned up his mouth.

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What do vitamins & healthy supplements really teach kids?

My kids are not soda drinkers. They’re barely juice drinkers. In our house, its a lucky day when you get orange juice for breakfast. We’re strictly water and milk.

So when WAT-AAH contacted me to send samples for review at Mommies with Style, I wasn’t sure about it. The purpose of WAT-AAH is to give children a hip and healthy alternative to soda and juices. It doesn’t have coloring, artificial flavors or sugars. Actually, its completely pure.

Of course, pure is what I already give to my kids.

Still, we tested it, and you’ll find a thorough review from last week on Mommies with Style.

But I have to mention my kids’ reaction because, Just Precious, afterall, is my reaction page. They were so into the idea that they were drinking a drink that gave them energy or healthy bones. It led to a great talk about vitamins and minerals that are good for you (which, of course, jumps right onto my latest soapbox, right?) But it also brought up a bit of a concern for me and the Huz.

Big brought his WAT-AAH bottle with him to his basketball game on Saturday. As usual, he was high-energy-all-over-the-court-in-your-face. That was the constant. The change in our “review testing experiment” was that he was drinking WAT-AAH Energy. Of course, he liked it. It’s water with oxygen, for heaven’s sake. It was refreshing and tasted fresh (yes, I tasted it, too.)

At dinner after the game, he was telling us about his favorite play, the one where he “jumped really high, missed the ball, but then it landed right in my hands! And I took off down the court and no one could catch me. And it was because I had super energy because I was drinking my WAT-AAH Energy drink.”

Hmmm… is this really what I want my guy thinking? That a drink that contains only pure water and oxygen is what makes him super speedy and full of energy? Shouldn’t he be taught that we don’t need substance to make ourselves who we already are, or can be?

I’m all for teaching kids that there are ways to help us to better our bodies. (Again, let’s look at my Let’s Talk About Food agenda, shall we?) But do we want them to think they need to rely on supplements, at such a young age?

All points being equal, WAT-AAH is truly brilliant, from their clever story to their fantastic packaging and a taste that just yells, well, WAT-AAH.

WAT-AAH sent me a sample for review on Mommies with Style. They also offered a giveaway to the NY International Children’s Film Festival through my blog. This post, however, is just my opinion and thoughts.

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Ag. Secretary Vilsack: Parents and schools are responsible for teaching healthy choices

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Last week I listened in on a call with US Secretary of Agriculture, Tom Vilsack, Alix from Med Nauseam Blog and several other bloggers from the SVMoms Group. Secretary Vilsack wanted to share his goals and plans to reauthorize the Child Nutrition Act with interested bloggers.

The call occured Wednesday morning (February 10), our first of a series of snow days. As the call began with a quick mention of Mrs. Obama’s Let’s Move! program, I smiled at my kids, doing anything but moving, as I downloaded Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs on my DVR. The irony, I thought, as I learned that the goal of the program was to enforce children’s fitness, requiring 60 minutes of movement per day, and not just by way of PE and recess. Secretary Vilsack expressed that the First Lady recognizes that this will require bringing back recess and Phys Ed into the school plans as we learn more with our minds when our bodies have exercised. I nodded in agreement as I listened to him share that our country needs to design our schools and communities  to allow for more movement and exercise, which includes bringing recess and physical education back into the school days.

Which led us to the purpose of his call, to educate the public of the goals of the reauthorization, which requests the government to supply $10 Billion in 10 years for its program. The reauthorization focuses on bringing healthier foods into schools by way of breakfasts and lunches, and to teach families and children to make healthier eating choices. We heard a lot of statistics (did you know that 102,000 students receive free or reduced lunches and 88,000 receive free or reduced breakfasts in our nation’s public schools? That 1/3 of America’s youngsters are obese or overweight?)

We learned that the Institute of Medicine recently studied school lunches to find that public school cafeterias offer too much sugar, fat and sodium, and too few dark orange and dark green vegetables. They also found that there are not enough multigrains available in the breads and pastas that are served, and that dairy foods are much lower than they should be for healthy eating. The IOM suggested an improvement of food quality.

Of course, anyone who has eaten in a school cafteria could tell you that.   A local school system offers a second choice meal each day, and that meal is often a hot dog or other processed, fatty food. Our schools cafeteria’s aren’t allowing for healthy choices. In fact, the offerings deserve a big fat F-rating. They’re failing our children.

But so is health education. American’s don’t have easy information to teach to their children, and schools, many of which have cut health programs from their curriculum aren’t being given the means nor the opportunity to teach healthy eating and healthy food choices.

Of course, none of this is the Secretary’s goal. Just like you and me, he’d like to see our children having better choices, and have the opportunity and knowledge to  make those choices. And then there’s the big problem. The problem that there always is, anytime we talk “radical” ideas in education: funding, budgeting and spending choices.

What many American’s don’t realize is that we do have a say in how our public school dollars are spent. In 2001, I watched the district where I taught toss their health and swimming* curriculae. The school district explained that the health lesson could be taught in the Science curriclum. As a member of  the curriculum writing committee, I studied the curriculum and no where were the basics of the health curriculum taught in grades K-6.  Appalled, I sent e-mails and wrote letters. I addressed it with the parents in my classroom. As 1 teacher of 24 students, I didn’t know what I do now. I now have a greater understanding that a little voice can have a big one, if you put your resources to work.

Parents, community members, it’s our jobs to persuade school boards to include in the curriculum values of healthy eating, as well as provide healthier foods. Its our duty to team-up with our schools to learn how to incorporate those healthy choices at home and to ensure they are followed at school. Of course, that will mean we need the ability to offer the healthy choices in our schools. For that, the school boards will need to take a good look at the funding in their schools and make sure they offer resources to teach and provide healthy eating. They also must recognize that physical education and movement is just as important as math and science.

In the next few weeks, I’ll be running a series of posts highlighting healthy eating lessons that parents and teachers can use to teach their children, and learn together. I’ll also ltake a look at how communities can best encourage their school boards to ensure healthy options are in their school cafeterias.

Our country’s children are suffering from unhealthy eating. They can’t make good choices without the inforamtion and opportunities presented. Its up to us: parents, community members, families and educators to ensure our children will learn the healthy way to live. And to learn.

 

*We were informed that swimmimg skills weren’t a necessity to be taught to 4th grade students, though I can attest to 2 of my 24 students that year who were fearful non-swimmers learning valuable self-saving techniques.

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Teachers: Take Advantage of Your Parent Volunteers

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I’m a parent volunteer. A volunteer mom. A PTOer. PTA member. Whatever your school calls the women in the halls that don’t get paid, that’s me. Like so many other parent volunteers, I do this out of love for my children, the school that I’ve chosen for them, and for their future.

 A former teacher, I recognize that many teachers don’t appreciate me. I remember my across-the-hall coworker rolling her eyes behind 2 of my role model moms commenting, too loudly, “Get a life! Or at least a job!” (I know… how rude! Believe me, I am so thankful she won’t be my kids’ teacher.)

 And then there was one of my son’s teachers telling me that they call the Holiday Shopping Bazaar the Holiday Shopping Bizarre. She said this to me: that year I was the bazaar chairperson.

 So, I know some think we’re crazy. But there are the teachers who do get it. They understand that we’re there to help them.

 There are several reasons that parents volunteer. Among them:

  • Letting your children know that what goes on at school doesn’t always stay behind closed doors
  • Allowing your children to see that you are interested, aware and involved in their education
  • Supporting, and getting to know, the adults your child spends a chunk of his day with
  • Creating relationships with people similar to you
  • Offering opportunities to make a difference in not just your child’s education, but within the educational system

 Teachers, there are so many things you can do to involve parents in your classroom. Lean on them. Take advantage of their interest in your classroom and in helping you. We want to be there. Please, welcome us. You don’t have to agree with our methods or our motives. Just recognize that we are what you have. We come with our children; your students. Make your room a welcoming place and embrace what we have to offer.

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Join me at Chester County Night School

So, after a talk with the marketing director from Chester County Night School this evening, I learned that I have to do a bit of my own PR to get my classes to actually happen.

Oh… you  don’t know? I’ve been contracted to teach classes this spring at CCNS in Chester County, PA. This is big, as I’m still trying to figure out what is next for me and, since teaching is some of my background and parenting is part of my foreground, I’m mixing it up a bit and trying out this night school thing. Perhaps it will lead to my next big thing, right?

CCNS offers courses on everything from Zumba to Gardening to Acting. Even Parenting. And Writing. Last year, I was a student in a design class where I learned everything from colors and patterns to flow to accessorizing. The class even came to my house and we staged my living room. For just $100, I learned much more in 9 hours than I would have with an interior designer working one on one, and for so much more money.

The course prices are so low, its totally worth checking a few out. I look at it this way: you’re only going to grow if you get out and there learn. So sign up for a class, get a sitter, and get out and learn.   They also offer gift certificates–a great gift for a big birthday or to show appreciation.

And, um, you know on the registration form where it asks where you heard of CCNS? Please tell them you heard of it from Just Precious.

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Teacher Mode

When I walked out the big blue doors of the elementary school where I taught 4th and 2nd grades for about 5 years to begin my maternity leave, I did so with joy. More than joy. Exuberance. Relief. Ecstatic celebration. And while, for the sake of my contract, I left the door open for my return 2 years later, I leapt so far ahead of it hitting me on the way out, I knew there was no way I was going back.

Don’t get me wrong. I liked my students. I loved planning units and curriculum. I thrilled in leading projects to do with the kids. But I couldn’t wait to break away from the politics in teaching. And, for the sake of keeping on subject, I’ll leave the nasty details out of this post. (Though they’re itching to come out, so loyal readers… stay tuned.)

Reading Phillip Done’s Close Encounters of the Third-Grade Kind wasn’t easy for me. Because while the book is full of cutesy, lovey, laughy moments in teacherhood, I can’t recall any of them in my teacherhood. Sure, I identified with a lot of Done’s stories, but I didn’t have the ability to enjoy those moments and tuck them into my back pocket where I’d bring them out again later and enjoy the memories. Again, the politics.

However what I do still have with me is Teacher Mode. And just like Mr. Done went into Teacher Mode when he traveled to Paris by helping kids see from the top of the Eifel Tower and tying shoelaces, I find myself going into Teacher Mode. Often. Maybe too often. (editors note: upon proofreading this line aloud, I actually just sighed.)

At the most random of times I’ll create entire units in my head. I’ll pick up brochures for future class trips, and plan themes around a bedtime book I read with one of the kids. Sitting in my car the other day I found myself thinking of a great way to use my Garmin to teach my fourth graders Place. I spend hours in Barnes & Noble, not just perusing the books, but helping other customers in the children’s section. Yes. I’ve been offered a job there. No less than three times.

It seems that, whether I dream to go back to teaching or not (and not is definitely the feeling when I wake up with nightmares), the teaching won’t go away from me.

This post is inspired by the book Close Encournters of the Third-Grade Kind by Phillip Done. The book was the November selection for the SV Moms Group Blog’s Book Club, of which I am a member. As a member of the club the book was provided for me to read.

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Always in support of the IEP

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A recent friend’s facebook status read:

…is PISSED at his kindergarten teacher!… now they are trying to get him labeled IEP, more money for the public school, … already had him tested over summer and educationally speaking he is fine, I have the documentation! He is SO smart he shocks us!!He has other issueses from [an injury] but NONE having to due with intelligence
I’m paraphrasing. As an educator, this status frustrated me. Reading it made me want to reach through the computer, grab her and shake her. “Do you know how wonderful a kindergarten IEP is?! Do you know how far ahead of the game you’ll be with a little Individualized Education Plan in place?!”
Once one has an IEP, it can never, ever be taken away. It will always be in the child’s file, even if you move to a different system, even if the child “graduates” from the IEP. An IEP allows for a group of adults and, at times, the child, to discuss and analyze the child to determine the best method for that child to learn. Special services may be determined necessary. And, really, why not?! Why not get everything there is from the public educational system? Why not bring a little attention to your child, in a positive, forward thinking manner? Why not accept smaller classes and a lower student:teacher ratio? Why not, possibly, offer a child special testing conditions, special learning conditions, and special consideration and attention to help the child succeed?
Having your child pin-pointed as a child in need (any need) isn’t a bad thing; its a good thing. With overcrowded classrooms and under-assisted teachers, getting your child out of the middle (where students needs are often overlooked) and into a specialized plan should be considered a goal. Its a way to help your child to succeed.
Its also important to know that a teacher can’t just send a note home and write an IEP. Screenings take months of discussion, meetings and assessments. The process begins with a referral to assess. What follows is a stream of events that call for approvals, signatures, discussions and observations. This timeline gives an example of the timeline in California. Its a great example, though it may change from state to state.
An IEP opens doors for students. It defines their learning styles, needs and offers suggestions (usually practices) that helps the student to succeed.

More IEP Resources*:
*Just Precious does not guarantee the information in the resources to be correct. We recommend them only as articles for further reading. Image created by Dominik Gwarek.
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A Successful Preschool Bingo Night

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This week our preschool hosted its first BINGO night. It won’t be the last. We had a fabulous turnout and the excitement was electric. Kudos go to BINGO chairperson, Stephanie, and her committee. They were so together that when Stephanie couldn’t attend at the last minute due to a family emergency, the committee ran the event nearly flawlessly.

BINGO Night was run as both a family/community event and a fundraiser. Usually, we classify events into actvities or fundraisers. BINGO qualified as both, which makes budgetting more difficult. We listed it as a fundraiser in our books.

Announcements went out over a month in advance and we started taking reservations right then so that we could plan our purchases. Usually RSVPs and checks are hard to come-by so far ahead, so we offered an incentive: Families who registered 1 month in advance were entered into a raffle: the winning family was given 4 tickets to see Disney on Ice, courtesy of Feld Entertainment and Just Precious. We drew in 21 registrants in less than 5 days. People who RSVPed within 2 weeks were offered extra raffle tickets to our raffle prizes that were being awarded during BINGO night. (Over 2/3 of our RSVPs were received within 2 weeks.)

The decor was bright, colorful and preschool-friendly. The circle tables were lined in plastic tablecloths that were red, blue and yellow and balloons of the same colors served as centerpieces. We love using balloons for several reasons: they’re bright, decorate with height, serve as great party favors and they’re raised above the tables so that kids can see across. Also in the centers of the tables were cups of Froot Loops and small pretzels to serve as BINGO markers. A few people commented that the kids would rather eat them the markers than play with them, but regular marker chips are choking hazards, candy is worse to eat than cereal and using an ink stamp would be a cause for the need of many copies of the boards (which is costly and eco-unfriendly.)

Our committee selected a BINGO game with pictures of common preschool words like “bed”, “dog” and “pencils.” There were only 9 spaces on each card which allowed faster games. We purchased several game boxes that will be used again in the future. When the number of children out-numbered our game boards, we made a few photocopies. We also didn’t clear boards for each winner, there were about 10 winners (at least) before it was announced to clear the cards. Upon winning, the kids yelled our “BINGO” and walked to the prize basket to claim a prize. Prizes were an assortment of toy novelties from Oriental Trading Company.

Following about 1/2 hour of playtime, the raffle prizes were drawn. We raffled 2 $50 gift cards to GAP, a $25 grocery gift card to Shop Rite and a set of DVDs by Scholastic Storybook Treasures. The grand prize was the 50/50 drawing where the winner won $87.50. (Raffle tickets were sold to families as they checked in. Ticket cost was $1 per ticket, 6 tickets for $5 or 18 tickets for $10.)

Finally, the families celebrated the evening with an ice cream party. Our committee pre-scooped vanilla ice cream into plastic cups and provided sprinkles and syrups.

The event lasted about an hour and raised around $300 for the school. Perhaps more importantly, the families enjoyed a night of fun while getting to know other families at the school.

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Pre-Kindergarten? Kindergarten? What’s the right decision?

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True, its only November, but the scurry to find the perfect placement for next year is a hot topic, as usual, at our preschool this fall. This year, I’m a voice of experience. Not only am I the former teacher, but I’m a parent who’s made the decision and experienced the result.

We opted to hold our son back and enroll him in a year of pre-K, affectionately called “The Fives” at our preschool. Not for academics, but to allow him to “grow up”, to mature and to be socially fit for a school child’s real world. Big has an end-of-August birthday and our school district has an August 31 cut-off.

It was, definitely, the right decision. In fact, I have yet to meet parents who would disagree. Many parents who push their children to Kindergarten express that they wish they had held their child back. 2 or 6 years later, I know parents who are struggling to help their child to keep up with their peers or that they would love to have their child repeat, but short of a transfer to a private education, its barely possible. But I have never found a parent who regrets an extra year of preschool, or a year of Pre-Kindergarten.

In our case, we’d rather Big, and next, Middle, and, likely, Little, be the oldest than the youngest. Our decision didn’t consider academics (lucky thing, because during Big’s year in the Fives he didn’t learn much academically. His pre-Kindergarten curriculum didn’t focus on academics that matched his needs –nor, in my opinion, should they have — but far more on the maturational needs of him and his classmates). We wanted an opportunity for our son to grow. Most important, to take an extra year to still be a child before the pressures of Kindergarten and elementary school began.

After a year in Pre-Kindergarten, we opted to keep Big in the same private school and enroll him in the full day Kindergarten program. Just as I did the November before, I visited Kindergarten programs in our area, trying to find the right fit. There are two things I learned in my search:

  1. whatever decision we made will be fine. It will be the right one for many reasons, and the wrong one for many reasons. No placement is perfect. But with the joint support of the family and school, a child will be happy and excited and learn something in Kindergarten.
  2. Kindergarten, just like Pre-Kindergarten, is only for one school year. And after (or, if need be, during) the school year a change can be made for the following year. Its only one year. And there’s no way that 13, or 14, years of education will all be stellar.

Recognizing these two parts of educational choice have made me more relaxed and confident in our educational decisions for our children. And while we have a lot to decide before next year (where will Big go to first grade?!), I know this is not a decision worth losing sleep over. I’ll do my research, visit any schools I have yet to visit, and talk to his teacher often, because I value her opinion and trust that she sees a different Big in the classroom than I do at our home.

Just as we did in the past, we’ll follow our gut, which I presume is based on the knowledge we are learning about our kids and their opportunities. And I’ll always remember that, whatever the decision we make, we’re doing it with the best of intentions.

To read more about our decision, click here.

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